Sunday, July 13, 2008

Canada Eh!

For those of you who did't know, I left my house on the 1st of this month to go to Victoria, Canada with my family!

I learned a LOT on this trip. One of the first things I learned is how much I really do not like riding on airplanes. lol. We went on 2 planes to get to Seattle, Washington, one of them being an hour-long flight, and the other one being a 4 & a half-hour-long flight. It's kind of depressing, thinking of how I want to travel the world, yet I dislike flying with a passion. lol :) I'm not very fond of ferries, either. I got REALLY sick on the ferry on the way back. It was BAD. Anyway, moving on...

We arrived at my sister Devi's house on the afternoon of Wednesday, the 2nd. It was SO GOOD to see her! I have not seen her for years! And my nieces! AH! I love them to pieces! Annabelle is 5 years old, she is so beautiful, and beyond intelligent. She has got to be the smartest kid I have met her age in my life. (And I know a LOT of kids her age) I don't know exactly how old Eleanore is, but she is my little baby niece, and she is really adorable, too. She's so cheerful :)

We did so much during the week and a half. One day we went on a hike that led to the ocean, and we spent some time there for a while. We went to a really great indoor pool a few times, went shopping, went out to eat a few times, went to some movies, and did all sorts of things! We got to go to the Vancouver Aquarium the day before yesterday, and that was pretty cool. Abyni's birthday was on the 4th of July, so the fact that we could all be together for her birthday was really great.

Devi, Lincoln and I went shopping one day. It was nice to have a day out with just the two of them. I bought myself a skirt that I love with an intense passion, it is VERY happy-making :) I found a pair of jeans that I loved, and my INCREDIBLE brother Lincoln bought them for me :D

I really, deeply enjoyed being with everybody. Usually when I'm hanging out with people, I feel like I have to be the entertainer. If I'm not entertaining everybody, I feel as though I'm being boring company. This was not the case at ALL at Josh and Devi's house. Just BEING WITH everybody was enough. It didn't seem to matter if we were all just sitting around at the house, it was still really enjoyable.

It was beyond wonderful getting to grow closer with these members of my family whom I rarely get to see. I couldn't believe how much of a 1-on-1 relationship developed between each family member and I on the trip. I would think that with 9 people under one roof, you wouldn't have much of a chance to spend time with each person 1-on-1. That was not the case, however!

I got to know Josh (my brother-in-law) better, and I like him a lot. He is a very intellegent person. I couldn't spend 20 minutes around him without learning something new. He's hysterically funny as well, and I'm so glad that I got to get to know him better.

Devi and I had a few talks and got to chat a lot during the trip. I love her so much, and I loved getting to see her as a Mother. She is a very fantabulous Mommy :) I really seemed to "click" with Devi right away, almost like we had never been apart. I remember the time that we spent together when I was young very well, I bet that has something to do with it. I really see a lot of myself in her.

It was really different having older siblings around! I was not the first one who was asked to look after Zaya and Abyni, or help with other certain things. It was so strange!

Speaking of Zaya and Abyni... goodness gracious, they have gotten so old all of the sudden! Lol, I'm so used to hearing people say that about me, but I cannot believe how much it really happens! They are such sweet kidleewinks! Zaya has such a heart... and he is so fun, such a character! Abyni is a sweetheart, too :) I grew a lot closer with them on this trip.

My relationship with Lincoln grew a lot stronger on this trip, as well. I was blown away seeing how much we have in common as completely different people. It seems like we did a lot together. He taught me a song on the piano, which made me immmensely happy! Then he helped me learn the intro to the song "Pieces" by Red on the piano. YAY!!! He cannot read sheet music, but he can still play some really great music on the piano. That inspires me a lot. He helped me out with a lot of things. And it wasn't just about the things he helped me out with, it was the time we spent together, talking and hanging out. I am so thankful that I was able to spend so much time with him, since I hardly ever get to see him.

Being around my Dad and everyone else at the same time was unusual. It was really nice getting to see him with all of his kids, though. I could tell he was really happy, and it made me happy to see him really happy :) He does so much for us. Thank you, Dad :)

I am so thankful for this family of mine. My Dad, Josh, Devi, Lincoln, Zaya & Abyni! (And my nieces) We are all so very different, yet the same. We all really seemed to CONNECT with each other. It didn't seem to matter that we had been away from each other for a long time.

It seems like there is something I really want to get out and say... but I'm not sure what. There is actually SO much more I want to write about this trip. I really did learn so much, and get so much out of it. I desperately hope we can do a trip like this next summer. I MUST see my people again. Hopefully even before next summer!

Immeasurable thanks to everybody who was a part of getting this trip together. I know it took a lot of time and money, and I am forever grateful for everything. Seriously.

To my Dad, Josh, Devi, Lincoln, Zaya, Abyni, Annabelle, & Eleanore:

I MISS YOU!!! 





and even more so...             I LOVE
  


YOU ALL
 




Let's keep in touch :) 

4 comments:

Cat said...

I'm glad you had such a wonderful trip!

I just got back yesterday from my trip and I had a good time, too. :)

Steve Garner said...

You are such a sweet "happy making" human being. I am so blessed with you in my life. Indeed it did make me "really happy" to not only have all my children finally together for the first time, but to see you all enrich each other so fully - "one on one" as you put it. A wonderful cherished time. Thank you dear one for coming - I know you too gave up a lot this summer to make this trip. And thank you to your wonderful siblings (and your nieces!) for everything also - for being so present and for being so great at ... BEING!! It is exciting to see you look forward to getting us all together again. Love you all every moment. And Sprite I love YOU and your unending contagious passion for all good things.

Unknown said...

cool stuff spritey!

Devi Garner said...

Thankfully Dad alerted me to come and have a look at this post...wow! It is really great to hear your perspective on all of us and your trip and the things we did. I really enjoyed reading your 'voice'..... I was there for a lot of it, but it seemed different and yet the same looking at it all through you. I am so glad you got so much out of your travels...that was the idea! I really feel like traveling internationally, becoming a mother, and having an education are the three things that opened my heart and mind the most (not in that order though :). It is truly special seeing that travel seems to do it for you too...even though its so unpleasant getting there for you :( We really cherished having some time with you Sprite, I sense our connection too; even when our visits are few and far between (hopefully they won't be anymore!), we are always sisters and that is something we will always have. Love you and miss you too Sprite!

PS we are going to our homeschoolers "Not Back to School" Picnic tomorrow...fun hey?